There where three issues:
1) for LisaLisa the RGB Paladin Ringlets.swf are just broken so the hair fails to load after, removing RGB Paladin Ringlets.swf fixes the issue
I figured this out because sometimes parts to charter folder fail to load so just clicking fixes it. Since everything else loaded it had to be the bracelets
2) for Widow Hulk_V2.swf is just broken and permanently breaks your game, removing it fixes the issue.
I figured this out because no matter how many times I clicked the loader reset button the legs and hulk penis wouldn't reset
3) and this is the most important!!
You must
sanitize your character code.txt files! When loading parts of your character threw your Mods.txt you must
remove them from code.txt. You must
remove the swfmod: at the end of the character code.
remove:
BGs
Hairs
Collars for shirts that have them
footwear
and swf mods
Would you like me to upload the fixed loader package put inside Sby's pack? Do you want SDTL2 as well?? SDTL 2