Try some of the "packs".
Wee Willie has Slave Trainer in the Dailogues section which has the Loader, Animtools, DA etc. all bundled and set up to run. Just download, extract it and run the Loader.swf and choose the Slave Trainer "character". You can ask any questions or get support on using this in Wee Willie's thread in the Dialogue section.
The same goes for Fleack's Dynamic Girlfriend, also in the dialogue section.
If you want something more free form (i.e. not a prepackaged dialogue-scenarios) then grab sby's pack in his thread in the Loader Mods section - it has everything set up to run, just download, unpack and start the Loader up and hit F2 to choose a position - you will find the positions in Loader.../Settings/Animtools Positions. (Alternatively maybe hit F1 to choose a random position.)